Sarika Kishore

Your Competence Became Your Assignment. That’s Not the Same as a Choice.

by Sarika Kishore | Apr 22, 2026 | Default Leader / Silent Successor

For eldest children and default leaders managing aging-parent care — on obligation-based identity, the invisible load, and what leading from choice actually requires. You didn’t raise your hand for this. There was no meeting. No conversation where the...

You’re Still in There. But You’ve Been Holding So Much, You’ve Forgotten Where You End.

by Sarika Kishore | Apr 22, 2026 | Live-In Caregiver (Same Household)

Live-In Caregiver Support: Finding Internal Space When External Space Doesn’t Exist It happened slowly. That’s the thing no one warns you about. First, the guest bedroom became their room. Then the routines were reorganized around their schedule....

Resentment isn’t a failure of love. It’s what happens when giving has consistently outpaced receiving
— and no one, including you, has been keeping track.

Your Competence Became Your Assignment. That’s Not the Same as a Choice.

You’re Still in There. But You’ve Been Holding So Much, You’ve Forgotten Where You End.

Resentment isn’t a failure of love. It’s what happens when giving has consistently outpaced receiving
— and no one, including you, has been keeping track.

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Your Competence Became Your Assignment. That’s Not the Same as a Choice.

You’re Still in There. But You’ve Been Holding So Much, You’ve Forgotten Where You End.

Resentment isn’t a failure of love. It’s what happens when giving has consistently outpaced receiving — and no one, including you, has been keeping track.

Recent Posts

Recent Comments

Resentment isn’t a failure of love. It’s what happens when giving has consistently outpaced receiving
— and no one, including you, has been keeping track.